Same Old Story: Unequal Housework in Australia
A new study has confirmed what many Australian women have long suspected – the gender gap in housework hasn’t budged in 20 years. While women are working more paid hours than ever, they’re still doing 50% more household chores than men.
On average, Australian women spend 18.4 hours per week on housework, while men contribute just 12.8 hours. That’s virtually unchanged from two decades ago. This persistent imbalance is leading to what experts call “volcanic levels of resentment” in relationships.
The Workload Divide: Paid vs. Unpaid Labour
Not only are women doing more domestic work, but they’re also increasing their paid work hours. According to the latest HILDA (Household, Income and Labour Dynamics in Australia) data, Australian women are now working an average of 32 paid hours per week, compared to 41 hours for men. While men still work longer hours in paid jobs, women’s total workload, when unpaid housework is factored in, far exceeds that of men.
The Impact on Relationships
Researchers warn that this imbalance isn’t just about dusty shelves and unwashed dishes. Studies show that housework is one of the most common sources of conflict in relationships. Women are often left feeling overburdened, while men may not even realise how uneven the workload is. This resentment can build over time, leading to more arguments and, in some cases, even divorce.
Why Hasn’t Anything Changed?
Despite shifts in workplace equality and cultural conversations about gender roles, housework habits remain stubbornly old-fashioned. Experts suggest several reasons:
- Cultural norms – Many Australians still subconsciously associate housework with women.
- Invisible labour – Tasks like organising family schedules, buying groceries, and planning meals often go unnoticed.
- Workplace demands – Many workplaces still expect men to prioritise paid work over shared domestic duties.
A Simple Solution? Just Do More.
Relationship experts suggest that a fairer division of labour could lead to happier relationships and fewer breakups. The takeaway? If men contributed even a few extra hours of housework each week, they could significantly reduce conflict and create more balanced partnerships.
It’s time for Australia to catch up; and for men to pick up a broom.
